I wrote this in April 2018, immediately after the Humboldt hockey team bus crash. The poem speaks to the importance of valuing the relationships we have, which as we all know change over time. It is written with the voices of a child and their father or mother to represent that family bond and love that is so critical even as we age.
I am but a small child in this big and changing world.
I like to sing and dance, and play funny games in the park
I like to draw and read, and be with my stuffed bears in the dark
I need you to feed and bathe me; and tuck me in at night
I need your hugs and kisses; and for you to love and hold me tight.
My child, you are very special and will always be loved by me.
I like to watch you dancing and playing in the park
I like to hear your voices and see your creative spark
I love our time together as you grow up every day
I need your hugs and kisses for they nourish me night and day.
I am but a growing child in this world too complex for me.
I like to play computer games and play all kinds of sports
I like to read and write at school, and getting good reports
I don’t need you to bathe me but to give me food and light
I need your hugs and kisses; and for you to love and hold me tight
My child, you are very special and getting bigger each and every day.
I like to be there watching as you grow and play your games
I like to hear your voice as you share your thoughts and dreams
I miss our time together splashing in the tub but will always be there for you
I need your hugs and kisses for they warm me through and through.
I am still your child but wanting to be much more.
I like to make my choices, and to make a difference in what I do
I like to be by myself and with my friends, not necessarily with you
I don’t need you all around me putting fences in my way
I need you but to love me, giving hugs and kisses every day.
My child you have grown; amazing in every way.
I like our conversations as your passions know no bounds
I like our times together as you drive me about the town
I ask that with the fences down, you but show some respect
And know that I still need your hugs and kisses to make each day perfect.
I am still your child but with others walking by my side.
I like the times we have together even if fewer than before
I like how you watch and care as I attempt to soar
I need you to know that I am grateful and love you in every way
You give me hugs and kisses, and love me every day.
My child you are still my baby, the one making their own way.
I like our times sharing; be it on the phone or face-to-face
I like the person you’ve become, making the world a better place
I need you to know that I am grateful, and love you in every way
You give me hugs and kisses, and love me every day